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都是长期之后未来的结果，不是今天就能拿出来证明、展示的；",[491,571,572,573,575],{},"拿尚未发生的事情说事儿，通常都有 ",[324,574,441],{}," 的特性，并且就算道理不一定错，但通常不会被正确理解；",[491,577,578],{},"人们不理解你的时候，自然而然地不会支持你；",[491,580,581],{},"证明自己是没必要的，做到了无需证明，没做到证明是徒劳的；",[491,583,584],{},"自己给自己引发很多攻击不仅是愚蠢的，更是致命的！",[312,586,587],{"id":587},"寻找别人的优点就是寻找他们的希望",[320,589,590,591,594],{},"只要你愿意，你可以在任何人身上找到 ",[324,592,593],{},"缺点"," —— 因为我们都不完美，甚至终其一生也无法做到完美；但若你把目光放在寻找别人的优点上，你的世界也会随着改变，因为本质上你是在寻找每个人生活中的希望 —— 那些支撑他们前进，让生活变的更好的希望！一旦拥有这样的能力，我们还怕失去希望么？",[317,596,597],{},[320,598,599,600,602],{},"每个人身上都有或多或少属于他的优点，而这些优点就是他生活中的希望之一；你把它们找出来，并且讲给他们听，其实就是在点亮他们生活中的希望；而这样的行为一旦成为习惯，即是你已经拥有了随处寻找 ",[324,601,390],{}," 的能力！而有了这样的能力之后，你还怕自己失去希望么？",[401,604,605],{"id":605},"每日称赞",[320,607,608,609,612,613,615],{},"从今天开始，除了 ",[324,610,611],{},"每日反思"," ，应该再加上 ",[324,614,605],{}," —— 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